When Eleanor Hamby and Dr. Sandra Hazelip met more than two
decades ago, it was best friends at first sight. They never imagined that, one
day, their friendship would be featured on news shows, get joked about on
“Saturday Night Live” and stop people in their tracks in a Tokyo train station
to exclaim, “Oh, my God, you’re the TikTok traveling grannies!”
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Hamby, 81, and Hazelip, 82, have inspired people all over
the globe with their project “Around the World in 80 Days: At 81 and Still on
the Run,” named in homage to Jules Verne’s 19th-century adventure novel.
Their travels earlier this year took them from the icy
shores of Antarctica to the rocky majesty of the Grand Canyon, and racked up
more than 1 million likes from thousands of followers along the way. “We
totally, totally were not expecting this,” Hamby said.
The women first crossed paths in their late 50s at a
Christian medical mission in Zambia where Hamby, a documentary photographer,
was the director and Hazelip, a recent widow, had come as a visiting physician.
Five years later, Hamby’s husband also died, unexpectedly. Hazelip was looking
to move her medical practice to Abilene, Texas, where Hamby lived, but didn’t
want to fully relocate. So, Hazelip made her friend an offer. “She said, ‘If
you’ll give me a bed two nights a week, I’ll take you out to eat,’” Hamby
recalled.
It was during those weekly visits that they discovered a
shared love of travel. “One day, I said: Ellie, I’ve always wanted to ride the
Trans-Siberian train. Do you think that’s something we could go on as a trip
together?” Hazelip recalled. That was their first big adventure, in 2008, and
trips to Southeast Asia and the Middle East followed in 2010 and 2011.
On their first few trips, the pair used a blog to keep their
friends and family updated. For the 80-day tour, a friend helped them set up
accounts on Instagram and TikTok, and soon thousands of followers around the
world were along for the ride.
“People kept saying how much we were an inspiration — an
inspiration for a good friendship, an inspiration to get out and do things,”
Hamby said. The whole experience “has definitely been a life changer.” And
they’re not stopping.
The friends can’t travel all the time — they both still
work, Hazelip at a hospice center and Hamby for the medical mission — but their
next trip, around South America, is already in the works for 2024, Hazelip
said. “And our theme will be: ‘We Are 82, and Travel We Can Do.’” (The
following interview has been edited and condensed.)
Q: How did you plan your 80-day trip around the world?
HAMBY: Well, we started with the book: “Around the
World in 80 Days,” by Jules Verne.
HAZELIP: We wanted to go to as many cities as the
protagonist, Phileas Fogg, supposedly went to on his trip. We also knew that we
definitely wanted to go to all seven continents; he didn’t do that. And then we
wanted to see as many wonders or natural wonders of the world as we could.
HAMBY: In the end, we wound up going to 18 countries
and eight wonders. Sandy made a Word document for every single day of the trip.
We always start with accommodations, figuring out where in a city we want to
stay, because location is No. 1. We really just need a place that’s clean,
because we don’t spend a whole lot of time in the hotel. And then we look for
the best price. We love to find these gem little hotels, like where we stayed
in Cairo: $13.50 a person a night. It wasn’t a typical place most tourists
would stay — we had to get to it in the alley — but we had a million-dollar
view on the rooftop. We take pride in the budget.
Q: How do you adapt when a wrench is thrown into your
plans at the last minute?
HAMBY: Sandy and I basically have a positive outlook on
a problem. It’s not like, “Oh, woe is me, what are we going to do,” crying. No,
we see the problem, and we know there’s a solution out there. We’ve just got to
keep a clear mind and a smile on our face, and the solution will come.
Q: What is your favorite thing about traveling
together?
HAMBY: Sandy hugs everyone — not just a little casual
hug, a good hug — and she’s always smiling. I really like that about her. I’ve
never been a hugger; my family can tell you that. It’s not my psyche. But Sandy
has taught me to be more open with people. It’s been really beautiful to see
how people all over the world needed Sandy’s hug.
HAZELIP: Ellie has taught me that it’s very important
to be at the right place at sunup and sundown so you can get the right light for
that good picture. And she’s just so fun.
HAMBY: We were just fortunate that we crossed paths and
came into each other’s lives when we did. When you lose a spouse, it’s very
difficult, and it’s wonderful to have a friend that has had the same experience
and understands how to be a friend to someone when that happens. A strong
friendship is really crucial to the grieving process.
Q: How do you respond to your families when they worry
about your embarking on these big trips or say, ‘Grandma, are you sure you want
to be traipsing around Lapland or Bali on your own?’
HAZELIP: I can run circles around you, kid. On
artificial knees.
HAMBY: We tell everyone: “We did not go on a vacation.
We went on an adventure.” And we never missed a day; we were either on an adventure
or we were flying. That’s why not too many people will travel with us. My kids
like to relax at the beach. They want to stay at more expensive hotels.
HAZELIP: That’s not an adventure for us.
Q: What advice would you give to people who have been dreaming
of an adventure like yours?
HAZELIP: Get up out of your easy chair. Step out of
your comfort zone. Make some plans and live.
HAMBY: Age is only a number. If you think you want to
try something, don’t be afraid to step out. Do it. Because you’re going to
regret if you don’t, and you will never regret if you do.
Q: What have your travels taught you?
HAMBY: Trust in people, because they’re basically good.
Just reach out and smile. Seriously, a smile will bring friendship. It will
open doors. It will knock down that barrier or make that person more likely to
help when you have a problem. I guarantee you’re going to have a much happier
trip and you’re going to meet a whole lot more people if you’re smiling
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