We are used to
seeing
children involved in sports activities,
and focusing varying amounts of energy and time on developing their skills and
abilities. Parents are investing more and more in sports for their children,
financially and emotionally. But what is the importance of youth sports, and
what are the issues they face when pursuing sports long term?
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The general consensus found in the research was that
nine out of 10 children state that the main reason they play sports is that
“it’s fun”, but is that all there is to it, and is this reason enough to
motivate children in the long run?
Further research by Paul McCarthy and Marc Jones
found that poor coaching and punishment for mistakes take the enjoyment away
from younger children. At the same time, peer rivalries, overemphasis on
winning, and excessive training and expectations suck the enjoyment out of
sports for older athletes.
According to a 2019 survey by Project Play, today’s
average child spends less than three years playing a sport, quitting by age 11.
But that is not to be solely blamed on the child. A report done in 2021 by the
State of Play and a survey by Project Play and the Utah State University found
that parents’ income affects the long-term participation of children in
sports.
According to the report and survey, in 2015, about
one in three parents (32 percent) from households making less than $50,000 a
year said that sports cost too much and make it difficult for their child to
continue participating. Meanwhile, one in six parents (16 percent) from
households earning $50,000 a year or more also said the same.
In September 2021, 24 percent of parents with
children playing sports who earn $100,000 or more said their child had resumed
sports at a higher level than before
COVID-19. Only 13–14 percent of kids from
the two lower-income brackets returned to sports at a higher pre-pandemic
level.
The financial aspect of sports is getting more and
more influential with time. The capacity to spend on sports provides better
chances for participation and continuation.
For children, honestly evaluating what sporting path
they are on helps produce better athletes and offers a better understanding of
the investment parents are getting into.
Youth sports do not have to be a path
to stardom and elite performance.
According to researchers such as Dave Collins and
Jean Cote, some athletes go down a sports participant pathway, and others on a
sports performance pathway. Depending upon a child’s age and stage of
development, some kids play sports simply because they enjoy being with their
friends, like learning, and get excitement from the competition.
Others gravitate to a high-performance pathway. They
may have more of a long-term focus on improvement and display athletic, social,
and emotional abilities that exceed many of their peers.
Most will argue that they would rather have the
latter. After all, this is where “the good life” begins. The most expensive
football player from 2013 to 2016, Gareth Bale, recently wrote: “The media
expects superhuman performances from professional athletes and will be the
first to celebrate with them when they deliver. Yet instead of commiserating
with them when they show an ounce of human error, they are torn to shreds
instead, encouraging anger and disappointment in their fans.”
“The everyday pressures on athletes is immense, and
it’s as clear as day how negative media attention could easily send an already
stressed athlete or anybody in the public eye over the edge.”
Bale’s words reflect how high the stakes are for
those who seek high professionalism, depression is becoming more common, and people
who are not coping with the pressure are trying to take their own lives, with
some going through with it. An article I wrote a few months ago, “Selling
Dreams”, digs deeper into athlete depression.
A gymnast’s parent posted on social
media a photo of her young daughter totally drained and exhausted after a
competition; what the parent wrote truly encompasses why youth should be in
sports.
She wrote: “Today I watched my daughter, who trained
for two years all throughout the pandemic, go into her first event of her
competition and fail hard. Two whole years she trained for this moment, and she
didn’t make her vault. I watched her turn her back as her shoulder shook, and
she silently wiped her tears. It took all I had not to run across the gym and
hug her. She took her time. She breathed some huge, deep breaths. Then she
turned back around. I then watched her come back to win silver on bars and
score a personal best on the floor.”
Knowing your child’s pathway and matching the
capabilities with the requirements of said pathway helps create a healthier
environment.
Sometimes, finding the right people to develop and
sharpen the skills and abilities while maintaining and improving the athlete’s
well-being can guide the child into a proper sports performance pathway.
Nonetheless, this is not the only pathway in sports.
We can see from the social media post by the gymnast’s parents that sports
should be about developing, growing, and offering a never-ending learning
process.
Youth sports should be about learning resilience and
accepting the fact that you will make mistakes, and that those mistakes do not
define you, that these mistakes help you build a better you. And youth sports
should definitely not be about getting scholarships.
Youth sports should be about experiencing falls and
learning how to get back up stronger, and not about getting a professional
contract. Youth sports should be about peace of mind knowing that you give
your all, with no regard for anything but getting better, and not about getting
gold in every event.
Identify the pathway, understand the capabilities and
requirements, and focus on the learning process. More importantly, keep it fun.
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