In the 1900s, a young Dutch woman left her childhood home and
her country to travel the world, serving as a nurse. As she went, she kept at
the forefront of all her actions a personal creed: “The will to make a
difference”. She had a passion for enhancing the lives of others, and she
succeeded in that endeavor.
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Today, her legacy
lives on through a mental health center in Amman that bears her name: the
Maria Den Braven Center (MDB).
Maria’s daughter-in-law, Basma Kilani, was inspired
to open the center by her husband’s late mother and her own experience as a
school counselor in Amman. In her work, she noticed the need for
multi-disciplinary mental health care among schoolchildren, especially those
with special needs. Then, she spent some time working at a budding psychological
center in the capital. Seventeen years of experience in the fields of
psychological consultation and special needs education exposed her to a wide
spectrum of human conditions and triggered a deep sense of a need for change to
respond to challenges — whether psychological, educational, or social — that so
many Jordanians face on a daily basis.
So, she opened MDB
near Second Circle in Jabal Amman, adopting a multidisciplinary approach,
employing highly qualified specialists committed to providing top-notch mental
health services, and infusing the workplace with a non-discriminatory
atmosphere. Her dream was realized as the comprehensive mental health service
center soon gained traction as a center for people seeking help.
Health is mental, too
MDB’s specialists offer a wide range of therapies including psychotherapy,
clinical psychology, psychiatry, special education, speech and language
pathology, and occupational therapy, among others. A central tenet of all who
work at the center is that mental health needs care, just like physical health
— here, there are no stigmas alienating those looking for care.
Kilani spoke to
Jordan
News about
Jordanians’ awareness of mental health issues. “When Jordanians
hear the word ‘healthy’, they typically associate it with physical attributes
like low cholesterol and the absence of disease. Sadly, a lot of people
experience mental health problems that can be just as crippling as some of the
most severe physical disorders,” she said.
“After obtaining
skilled treatment from mental health specialists, most of these people
experience an improvement in their quality of life,” the specialist added.
Many in the Kingdom
never get help — not because they fail to seek it, but because even with
insurance or financial assistance, mental healthcare services can be costly. As
finances are among the top barriers to Mental Healthcare Access, MDB
specialists provide services to a certain number of patients for free or at a
lower cost. In fact, as Kilani explained, all experts at the center are
required to handle one case a month on a pro-bono basis “to give back to
society and to stay true to our vision of opening up the society regarding
mental health”.
MDB’s volunteerism
does not stop at pro-bono counseling. The center also provides therapy and
psychosocial support for women at risk and female prison inmates. Expert Vesna
Shalaby works at Al-Juwaidah Correction and Rehabilitation Center for Women,
offering therapy for female inmates. She also assesses women at risk who are in
protective custody, evaluating how they can safely return to their homes,
children, and families.
“We also carry out
group sessions for the female inmates to improve their skills and their coping
mechanisms to handle any issues and conflicts that may arise amongst them,”
Kilani added.
For couples,
parents, and children
Another MDB service is couples therapy and pre-marital counseling, which
helps couples preempt and resolved marital conflict. This also includes
sessions for engaged couples seeking to determine if they are a good fit and
working to grow their communication, empathy, and validation. Couples therapy
for married couples helps them bolster the marriage relationship or deal with
difficulties such as infidelity, stressful life circumstances, financial pressures,
and intervention of in-laws.
“Our marriage
therapist also holds a sex therapy degree from the Royal College in England, so
it’s a topic that a couple can discuss in all discretion,” Kilani noted.
Family therapy
programs at MDB work to break cycles of intergenerational trauma, often in
response to a family member’s mental illness.
“In our parent-child interactions training, our therapists
let the parents interact and engage with their children through the use of
natural play situations. As the therapists supervise the interactions, they
take notice of the parenting style, faults in communication, or even accidental
reinforcement of a child’s bad behaviors,” Kilani explained. “Then, the
therapists design a training for the parents, tailored particularly for them to
address their issues and receive corrective feedback on their mastery of
parenting skills.”
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