One of the basic problems in advancing women’s rights in Jordan
(and the world) comes from language. Are we looking to achieve “equality” or
“equity” for women? The language we use is the first step toward drawing a
roadmap for what we want to achieve, and that is precisely where feminists have
failed across four waves of feminism.
اضافة اعلان
In Jordan,
feminism is multifaceted and reflects a wide spectrum of ideas and concepts
about women’s role in society, economy, and politics. If you interview women
from various backgrounds in Amman and across Jordan, you will arrive to the
conclusion there is no one reading on what “feminism” or “women’s rights” (which
are not synonyms) mean to them. It usually is up for personal interpretation
and can vary from generation to generation and from locality to locality.
Many Jordanian
women prefer not to label themselves as “feminists” and have their own unique
way of marrying their conservative upbringing (and learned skills at
maneuvering societal restraints) with more progressive ideas about women’s
right to work, freedom of movement, and economic independence.
In light of
this, the problem with local women’s rights movements has historically been
about their lack of inclusion. The earlier generation of leading local
feminists were known for a specific understanding of what women’s rights should
be, believing they had the right to impose their vision on the rest of society,
without ever bothering to ask women from different socio-economic backgrounds
about what they truly wanted for themselves and their daughters.
In the 1990s,
Arab and Jordanian feminists started adopting language popularized by
second-wave Western-style feminism that hit the US around 30 years earlier.
Back in the 1960s, “women’s lib” (short for “Women’s liberation movement”)
introduced a more combative era for women’s rights in the US, with a type of
lingo that became a favorite among non-Western feminists across the world.
The (late)
arrival of “women liberation” attitudes to the Arab world was thanks mostly to
Egyptian activist and writer Nawal Saadawi, who passed away at age 90 in March
2021. A whole generation of feminists was fueled by Saadawi’s combative
language, which in many ways reflected the 60s brand of feminism in the West.
As a result,
Jordan’s feminist pioneers adopted the term “equality” as the backbone of their
movement, often clashing with conservative views regarding women’s role in
society. In turn, conservatives, and Islamists in particular, ended up
demonizing ultra-liberal Jordanian feminists and their libertarian tendencies,
accusing them of wrecking all social contracts in favor of a Western version of
feminism that fails to factor in local contexts like history, religion, and
social makeup.
Whereas over the
years Jordanian women have been able to evolve in ways that consolidated
conservatism with liberalism, language, too, needs to evolve to reflect the
reality of their context.
A case in point
is in how the word “equality” has started unfolding as a seriously problematic
concept four years ago, when the #MeToo movement (and hashtag) took the US and
the world by storm.
Following
decades of self-imposed blindness to women’s real work conditions at
workplaces, from Hollywood to less glamorous offices and factories, present-day
fourth-wave American feminism has made it possible for the world to see the
reality of women’s professional lives: women have for decades been suffering from
predatory behavior by their male bosses and peers, while keeping silent about
it.
Although not yet
scrutinized as it should be, the term “equality” has acted like a blindfold
preventing women rights movements and society at large from seeing the reality of
womankind’s strife in real life. Due to #MeToo, story after story came out of
women being sexually harassed, manipulated, and raped in environments where
they should have been safe.
Worst of all,
women have been misleadingly celebrated for “conquering” new work frontiers,
with the high price tag of silently enduring inhumane levels of discrimination
and harassment, only to keep a faux image of equality and to keep their jobs.
Because of
language, women’s role in society, economy and political life has been marred
by an under-reported culture of sexual predation that has been systematically
ignored – in a naïve attempt by second and third-wave women rights activists to
gloss over the serious challenges facing women.
“Equality” has
in effect denied women a fair chance at creating safeguards, like sound laws
and legislation, to protect them from the “male gaze”, a phrase used by
American actress Meryl Streep at the onset of the #MeToo movement.
A couple of
decades ago, confessing to the truth about the male-female dynamic would have
subjected the actress to the unchecked wrath of earlier feminists, who wanted
to cancel the 1950s stereotype women were the “weaker sex”.
Putting a
delusional blindfold on our eyes in the name of “equality” is plain wrong and
counterproductive. It is about time we understood the dynamics between men and
women in realistic terms to, yes, “protect” women. This by no means implies
that all men are predators, but let us face it, a culture of male predation is
indeed rife across the planet.
That is why
“equity” is a better word to describe what many women are trying to achieve.
Another concept to think of is “contextual equity”, where women’s rights are
advanced against the backdrop of their societies, especially that we need to
start coming to terms with the fact that there is no blueprint that fits all
women in every society.
This kind of
one-dimensional thinking is one of the main problems plaguing international
think tanks and policy hubs, like UN Women (whose newly appointed executive
director is Jordanian compatriot Sima Bahous).
For years, UN
Women have come up with social media campaigns developed (or at least approved)
by their New York team, who seems to have a very poor understanding of cultural
trends outside of the US. Some of these campaigns have carried
ultra-progressive messaging that works for a left-leaning US audience, but
sounds offensive and inappropriate to an Arab one.
With no cultural
sensitivity and a complete absence of respect for social codes in non-US
contexts, such as the Jordanian society, the organization has launched those
same campaigns across every one of their social media channels to target women
from all countries, regardless of their religious and social backgrounds.
Like many other
women policy hubs, UN Women’s continued tendency to flatten context has worked
against women empowerment, subjecting multi-cultural females to “imported”
notions about women’s rights and freedoms. Once tested in real life, culturally
insensitive activism will continue to breed more discrimination, sexual
harassment and objectification – in the absence of context.
That is why
“equity” can help us rethink policies that aim to achieve two things at once:
Women “empowerment” and “protection”. An attitude of equity and fairness will
help us see that harassed women need hotlines to seek help when a boss or
coworker insults them with unwanted advances. Women and girls need effective
laws to help them end verbal and physical gender-based violence at home and at
work. And battered women need safe houses to run to when brothers and husbands
decide to break them just because they have less muscle.
That is why, it
truly is time to call for equity, not equality, for women and girls.
Ruba Saqr has reported on the environment, worked in the public sector as a communications officer, and served as managing editor of a business magazine, spokesperson for a humanitarian INGO, and as head of a PR agency.
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