When first
introduced to
The Book of Delights by
Ross Gay, I was a junior in college, in
early 2019, overwhelmed by classes, continents away from family, yearning for
something, perhaps a spark, in my life, and definitely unaware of what would be
in store in just a few short months (read, global devastation).
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Gay, an American
poet and professor was, at the time, visiting my college campus a day before I
was set to take off for conference in Boston. By pure luck, I was able to
attend one of his readings — and help my English advisor set up a station to
sell Gay’s books — and I was in awe.
Gay’s wisdom spills
over in his lighthearted and welcome writings. As life would sometimes have
it, his book was exactly what I needed, a gleeful interjection in my daily
life. It still is a faithful companion that I frequently re-read.
In the 274-page
book, Gay jots down almost daily his life happenings in the course of a year,
from birthday to birthday, in a series of essays. His goal is to show gratitude
for the things that bought delight to his life; he does it by critically and
enthusiastically writing his thoughts on people and occurrences, taking time
off from the arduous demands of his daily life.
First handwritten
then copied into a word document,
Gay’s book encapsulates honest delight at big
and small; at the rare trust shown by people who leave their bags in a train
unattended for long periods of time, or at the elegant movements of a praying
mantis. He also astutely, but never bitterly, hints at his experience as a
Black man in America or at perception, often biased, of one’s acts.
The stories and anecdotes both offer an escape and are a stern reality check; a reminder that delight exists where we look for it or create it, and why we must always seek it out.
Gay’s delights over
the course of a year — with a few days missing here and there — are not an
emotionally insensitive rant of toxic positivity. This book is not a self-help
book; rather, through essays of different lengths and a great deal of emotional
intelligence, readers are invited to assess and reshape their daily
interactions and ideals, acknowledge the impact ignored people, emotions, and
even plants growing in the cracks of an old sidewalk may have on one’s being
and, like Gay, simply enjoy the gift of life.
The language of the
essays, highly intellectual but also accessible to most, does not shelter one
from daily struggles. Blunt, veiled, conversational, philosophical serious, or
sarcastic, it is used to create writing of various lengths, which makes it easy
to read and, like Scheherazade’s stories, is a fascinating page-turner.
Readers have access
to Gay’s thinking, come to similar conclusions and enjoy the interjections
sprinkled between the paragraphs. The “limited” perspective — that of the
author — does not dull the writing, which stays constantly charming, relatable,
and attractive.
Reshaping our
perceived reality, Gay himself is a delight that reminds us of the magic in
daily life without the unrealistic rose-colored glasses.
This book is an
excellent addition to every personal library; it gives much-needed joy at a
time joy seems to be sorely missing.
The stories and anecdotes both offer an escape and are a stern reality check; a reminder that delight exists where we look for it or create it, and why we must always seek it out.
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